Selective Tolerance in the Land of the Free: Are We Picking Favorites?
A few summers ago, a neighbor asked our cul-de-sac Facebook group whether anyone would mind if he put a larger flagpole in his yard. He is a quiet guy, a veteran who attends HOA meetings and returns borrowed ladders on time. The thread stayed polite, but the tension was obvious. One person worried it might “send the wrong message.” Another asked if a larger pole would set a precedent for “other types of flags.” My neighbor replied that he just wanted the American flag to be